I'm talking to my brother's fiance. She's about to marry into our family, and I need to make sure that she understands what that means. Women in our family face certain expectations. Of course, we require that wives do normal "women" things like cooking, cleaning, and doing laundry, but in our family, we go above and beyond. Our entire lives revolve around making our husbands happy. We believe that's a woman's role - to be nothing but an object for her husband's satisfaction. If she wants to be my brother's wife, she'll need to become the perfect free-use wife.